Monthly Archives: January 2015
TAPs is the acronym for Thin Air Patrol. It is our specialty climbing program where campers learn the skills and gain the knowledge necessary to safely enjoy one of the oldest sports in the world. Campers who sign up for TAPs during their stay at Coppercreek start on our 40-foot multi-route climbing wall and bouldering area. They learn how to properly tie the most common knots, handle rope, and use climbing hardware while supporting fellow climbers as they attempt the wall. When the campers are ready, the TAPs group goes on an overnight trip to a local granite climbing area. The overnight trip starts with a picnic lunch while the climbing counselor sets up the climbing routes for the day. The campers then spend all afternoon climbing different routes on the granite slab and practicing their balance on the slackline. When everyone has had their fill of climbing for the day, they head to the nearby campsite and take a plunge in the brisk river. The evening is spent around the campfire roasting hotdogs, indulging in s’mores, and singing songs.The next morning, campers head back to the climbing spot for another day of climbing. Some of the more advanced climbers may even try repelling! The second day also usually has a “challenge climb” for those willing to really step out of their comfort zone. The campers arrive back at Coppercreek by dinner and begin sharing their two day adventure with all of their friends at camp.
by Becky Hogland, Coppercreek Owner and Director
I have been spending my summers at camp since 1992 and have 2 wonderful daughters, age 12 and nearly 5 who now join my husband Craig and I every summer. As a Mom, I know how much pressure we as parents are under to do the “right” thing for our children. We can spend our days filled with anxiety. Is this the “right” preschool? The “right” elementary school? Does my child need academic enrichment in the summer? Should I put them on the traveling club volleyball team? And on and on it goes. We quite simply want to give our kids every opportunity we can and are so bombarded with different ways to provide these opportunities, it is difficult to know which way to turn. My Uncle always described it as “collecting keys” to open a door which we may come upon during our adult life, and we are under increasing pressure to make sure our kids not only have keys, but have the “right” keys. So, where does a Traditional Summer Camp and more specifically Coppercreek fit in to the world our kids live in now? So many families see the camp experience as simply a time of fun and friends. In actuality, the social and emotional growth of children is REALLY what camp is about, and the activities and fun are just the vehicle we use.
The Coppercreek Camp experience offers some very real, very necessary benefits our kids can’t get elsewhere. Among these important benefits are independence, the confidence which comes from being part of a supportive, inclusive, multi-generational community, and the life at the pace of nature that our busy, technology soaked kids need.
As Michael Thompson, Ph.D, child psychologist and author of the New York Times bestseller, Raising Cain and Homesick and Happy says in his article Sending Kids to Summer Camp (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-thompson-phd/sending-kids-to-summer-camp_b_1539726.html) “Does an overnight camp experience still make sense in this competitive, resume-building world? From this psychologist’s point of view, the answer is a resounding YES. I believe that children develop in profound ways when they leave their parents’ house and join a camp community. Learning to sleep away from home is, of course, a critical step on the way to independence.” Helping our kids gain independence is a critical part of childhood and one of our most important and most elusive tasks as parents. Our kids can only develop independence by being away from us and making decisions on their own.
Coppercreek offers a warm, supportive environment to start children down the road. As Michael Thompson notes, “Children don’t develop because they are pushed and prodded and pressured to develop. Children don’t develop because of town teams or because their parents prepare them to go to a “good” college. Growing up is what kids do, because development is their biological and psychological imperative. It is the job of adults to create environments where they have the time and freedom and safety to grow up at their own pace.” Coppercreek is exactly that environment.
Some of the things we hear most from our campers is “I could really be myself at Coppercreek Camp” and “I felt confident to try new things.” Why is Coppercreek a place where campers feel confident to be themselves and try new things? One of critical reasons is that Coppercreek is essentially a non-competitive environment. Our campers are encouraged to try their best and we celebrate their accomplishments. We never compare one camper’s accomplishments to another. Each child is growing and developing and learning at their pace. In The Case Against Competition (http://www.alfiekohn.org/parenting/tcac.htm) in Working Mother Magazine, author and lecturer Alfie Kohn notes, “One study demonstrated conclusively that competitive children were less empathetic than others; another study showed that competitive children were less generous.
Cooperation, on the other hand, is marvelously successful at helping children to communicate effectively, to trust in others and to accept those who are different from themselves.” Coppercreek Camp provides an environment where campers must work together and cooperate for the cabin and the community to thrive. From this spirit of living and working together and cooperating comes acceptance and trust of ALL of the members of the Coppercreek community and a chance for campers to feel confident “being themselves” and “trying new things”.
Last, but not least, Coppercreek provides campers the opportunity to slow down the pace of life, live, work and play in a multi-generational community and experience the wonder of the natural world. Michael Thompson notes in Home Away From Home (http://www.campparents.org/homeaway ) of summer camp that he “re-discovered a fantastic lost world of family traditions. A world where people sit down and eat three meals together every day, serving their food from platters and talking with one another throughout the meal. A world where ten-year-olds set the table for dinner and take all the dishes back to the kitchen when the meal is finished, without complaint. A world where thirteen-year-old boys don’t play video games every night, nor do they watch TV or sit in front of computers. Instead, they lie on their beds and read comic books and novels. In this world, I saw eleven-year-old girls walking together and holding hands as they walked back to their cabins. Right out in the open. No girls there send mean instant messages to one another; they don’t I.M. at all. Instead, they sing. When they are making their beds (yes, they make their beds every morning) and sweeping out their rooms, they sing together. First one starts to sing a song, and then the others join in, spontaneously. There is no adult leading them.
I saw a world where nineteen and twenty-year-old young men spend hours of time swimming and diving and kayaking with eleven-year-old boys, and they all seem to enjoy it equally. When the swimming is over, the boys hang out with the young men and ask them questions. They also walked to dinner together, sometimes with the smaller boys hugging and hanging on the bigger boys, who don’t tease them or act annoyed. Even more amazing, at the end of each evening, the young men, the twenty-year-olds, sit with older men in their fifties and sixties and listen to them tell stories about their lives. The young ones aren’t sarcastic or dismissive the way that television sitcoms suggest they are supposed to be. They seem eager to learn from their elders, night after night. And at the end of the night, they all sing, boys and young men and old men, all together around a campfire. When I visited a camp for a week, some forty years since I had last attended one myself, I was struck hard by how rarely I see children engage in these activities anywhere else: not in schools, not in neighborhoods, not in families. It made me wonder if summer camps are one of the last places that kids can learn the so-called “family values” that hard-pressed families no longer have the time to teach. I was struck by the fact that a summer camp seems to provide something that is in short supply in our fast-paced worlds: respect for ritual, time for the generations to get to know one another, and of course, the opportunity to take a nap or read a comic book after lunch every day.”
I believe wholeheartedly in Coppercreek and the value of a traditional summer camp experience. My Middle School daughter’s homeroom teacher mentioned today that she is a joy in class because she has a confidence and self-assurance that is increasingly rare in a Middle School kid. I had to give credit where it is due; Coppercreek Camp is doing a great job raising our kids. Craig and I are very grateful. Now we just need to decide about the club volleyball team…..